“And so in war; if the campaign is
in summer the general must show himself greedy for his share of the sun and the
heat, and in winter for the cold and the frost, and in all labours for toil and
fatigue. This will help to make him beloved of his followers." – Xenophon’s
Cyropaedia
“And
then the banquet came to an end: the guests rose, and Cyrus stood up with them
and conducted them to the door.
And to those who
went home he gave many gifts and sent them away well content, both officers and
men. After this he distributed among his
own soldiers all the wealth he had taken at Sardis, choice gifts for the
captains of ten thousand and for his own staff in proportion to their deserts,
and the rest in equal shares, delivering to every captain one share with orders
to divide it among their subordinates as he had divided the whole among them. Thereupon each officer gave to the officers
directly under him, judging the worth of each, until it came to the captains of
six, who considered the cases of the privates in their own squads, and gave
each man what he deserved: and thus every soldier in the army received an
equitable share. But after the distribution of it all there were some who said:
"How
rich Cyrus must be, to have given us all so much!"
"Rich?"
cried others, "what do you mean? Cyrus is no money-maker: he is more glad
to give than to get."
When
Cyrus heard of this talk and the opinions held about him, he gathered together
his friends and the chief men of the state and spoke as follows:
"Gentlemen
and friends of mine, I have known men who were anxious to have it thought they
possessed more than they really had, thinking this would give them an air of
freedom and nobility. But in my opinion the result was the very opposite of
what they wished. If it is thought that a man has great riches and does not
help his friends in proportion to his wealth, he cannot but appear ignoble. There are others," he went on, "who
would have their wealth forgotten, and these I look upon as traitors to their
friends: for it must often happen that a comrade is in need and yet hesitates
to tell them because he does not know how much they have, and so he is kept in
the dark and left to starve. The
straightforward course, it seems to me, is always to make no secret of our own
resources, but to use them all, whatever they are, in our efforts to win the
crown of honour.”
With
these words he proceeded to point out his visible treasures, and he gave an
exact account of those that could not be shown. He ended by saying:
"All
these things, gentlemen, you must consider yours as much as mine. I have
collected them, not that I might spend them on myself or waste them in my own
use: I could not do that if I tried. I keep them to reward him who does a noble
deed, and to help any of you who may be in want of anything, so that you may
come to me and take what you require."
- Xenophon’s Cyropaedia
From
everyone who has been given much, much will be required: and to whom they
entrusted much, of him they will ask all the more. – Luke 12:48, The Bible
The gospel accounts in
Matthew 25:13-30 and Luke 19:11-17 have been a near constant obsession since I
was 11 years old. The story is simple –
or at least it should be. A master is
heading out on a trip. He calls together
three servants and to one he gives five measures, to another he gives two, and
to another, one. And then he leaves. After an indeterminate time, he returns and
asks them to give account for what they’ve done. The one that was entrusted with 5 invested
and returned 10. The master was pleased
and entrusted him with charge over ½ of his estate. The one who had 2 also doubled his wealth and
was given charge of ¼ of the estate. And
the one that had one said that he had buried it for safe keeping and was
returning it intact. The master was furious
and ordered the one measure to be given to the one that had returned 10, and
punished and banished the last servant. (Bummer
for the communists among us – Jesus justified the rich getting richer! Occupy that 99%ers!). And these two stories fuel the fabled
admonition that if you’ve been “given much, much will be required.”
But the cunning linguistic
avoidance of all the wisdom in this story and the failure to put it in the
context of the passage where the admonition actually comes from robs us of much
wisdom. No one in the story was “given”
anything – they we’re entrusted as stewards.
And their accountability was not to aspire to being defined by their
assets but rather to return even greater value to the master. At no point did the assets change
ownership. They remained, at all times,
in the discretion of the master. And
nothing about being a steward transformed the servants into “masters”. Cyrus the Great did not see spoils of war as “his”
but merely that which he “collected”. Throughout
the accounts of his life, he constantly embodied stewardship.
stew·ard·ship (n): the careful and responsible management of
something entrusted to one’s care
I’ve experienced some
poignant reminders lately about why Cyrus and the gospel parables have been
both haunting and motivating throughout my life. Several years ago, an armed soldier thrust
the barrel of an automatic rifle at me and yelled, “I can take your life.” Without missing a beat I responded, “You can’t
take something from me which is not mine to give.” When you have a gun barrel at your chest, it’s
a bad idea to confuse the gun wielding angry man. But it was somewhat amusing to observe that
the power of the gun seemed to be entirely overtaken with the cognitive dissonance
my response unleashed in the poor guy’s head.
He lowered the barrel and simply gazed at me with a far-off puzzling
look as I walked away. This experience,
for me, was confirmation of the reflex of stewardship. The recognition that life, ideas,
experiences, people, and resources are not mine. I am merely the collector and steward of
those things that have been placed within my sphere of influence.
So I’m puzzled when I hear people
refer to ideas that I’ve shared as something they “control”. I find myself deeply hurt when I hear someone
refer to groups of people as “my contacts” or “my group”. When work that’s been developed in
collaboration suddenly is appropriated as “mine” or subject to “my” control, I
wonder what purpose is purportedly served.
When I developed the technologies that have ranged from laser surgical
devices to linguistic genomics unstructured data analytics to hieroglyphic enciphering
to anechoic materials to optomagnetic synthetics to accretive arbitrage finance,
I know that none of these were “mine”.
They represented the accumulation of all my observations and experiences
in a context in which their manifestation was possible. That they achieve scales
of impact beyond the ordinary and are of inestimable value doesn’t make “me”
rich or powerful. Because these concepts
(wealth, power, status) born of aspirational dominion are of no consequence in
reality. They feed illusions that beget
separation and isolation.
I’m working with two
different groups on highly disparate projects.
In one instance, I’m seeking to build enterprises around the many assets
that have been manifest in my corporate activity. I have carefully conscripted individuals with
precise competencies to the table to work with us on harvesting the value that
we’ve validated. And much to my sadness,
this impulse has engendered a response of appropriation. “I’ll take this from you,” is the response to
an offer of collaboration. This response
has been a near constant companion to each moment I’ve extended the enterprise
table to others. In another deeply
personal instance, I’ve watched as a massive catalyst for deep social
transformation has become the basis for claims of proprietary control all the
while knowing that the substance of the catalyst – an impulse coherent with
humanity’s best expression – transcends containment and dominion. When did we lose the recognition that we’re
in this thing called life together and we’re entrusted with the tools,
insights, connections, and networks through which we’re provisioned and by
which we can provision others? When did
we stop observing Light and recognizing that energetic transmission – not hording
or absorbing – is the ideal condition?
I stood on the green marble
rostrum at the United Nations General Assembly hall yesterday in New York City. I was invited to speak about the work I’ve
done to find peaceful resolution to conflict in places ranging from Central
America to Central Asia to Bougainville, Papua New Guinea. I have no idea whether I will ever stand in that
spot again. So this was “my” moment,
right? No, I spoke about the wonderful experiences I had with combatants and
refugees during the Nicaraguan conflict in the 1980s, the amazing fellowship I
had with Lawrence Daveona, Chris Uma and the combatants at the Morgan Junction
access road to Panguna Mine, and the myriad of people around the world with
whom this life has intersected – people who will likely never stand in the
great hall of the United Nations. This
was not MY moment. It was a moment for
all those who have shared their journey with me and entrusted the story of our
lives to me!
We’ve all been entrusted with
various amounts of life, experience, story, legacy, resources, networks,
friends, capabilities, etc. These are
not “ours” and they defy the idolatry of turning them into appropriated
artifacts. They are merely those energies
over which we have the opportunity to exercise stewardship. And, if we’ve been entrusted with much, let’s
let it flow in channels that maximize those impacts to others.